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How do you relax?

When it’s time to relax, I turn to the calming sounds of a river or stream —it’s my foolproof way to...

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Why did my ex replace me so fast?

It’s a rebound they’re basically trying to use someone else to replace the feelings they had with yo...

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How do you feel cockroach?

Haha nice try trying to bring me down as biggest star sexy sex god love god et angel bull of bulls m...

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Is it true that LGB should drop T?

Nice Astroterfing. Anyways, the freedom-hating bigots who claim they “have no problem with gays, onl...

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I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

Yes, this is relatable. I realized somewhat recently that I had been substituting my need for emotio...